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Life, relationships

First day as a Fiancé

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Tell us about your first day at something — school, work, as a parent, etc.

My first day as a fiancée was uneventful with the exception of putting ring on and taking it off. Then doing the same thing over and over again.

I thought to myself argggggghhhhh. How long will I wait till I spill my guts? Turns out there are still people just finding out. I think I just wanted a moment to enjoy the moment without other peoples input, advice or thoughts.

It’s nice to have something to yourself especially on the first day, before the world puts it’s influence on it.

Health and Wellness

Walking and Swimming

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Daily writing prompt
What are your favorite physical activities or exercises?
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My favourite physical activities are swimming and walking my dog. I used to think I was cheating my dog when I missed her walks, but I have now realized that I wasn’t only cheating her — I was also cheating myself. Those morning walks with my dog help me get some steps in, which is really important for someone who sits while working or works from home. Now when I see my little dog’s face saying, “Let’s go already,” I also think to myself: yes, let’s go — We both deserve to go outside and get some fresh air.

Swimming is amazing because I love the water, but I always have to schedule it around my wash day. As a Black woman, it’s hard to go swimming every day because black hair is dry. Well, at least mine is. so swimming daily would probably damage my hair. I’ve figured out a routine that works: if I go swimming on Saturday night, I put in some leave-in conditioner and then I don’t wash my hair until Sunday afternoon. this allows me to go swimming twice a week and after my second swim I can just wash my hair and reset for the next week.