I think I hope people say that I am smart but a little part of me would want them to say I’m generous. I think I personally value the smart label while knowing that being generous maybe a better character trait.
What’s the first impression you want to give people?
I’m a believer that first impressions matter but I also firmly believe that they are often inaccurate. When I meet people I want them to think I’m nice and hopefully funny. I find that humour makes any situation better.
When you first meet someone you have to be a little careful, they may not “get” you or your sense of humour. That can lead to a bad first impression.
I’ve met people that I thought I would get along with, yet after getting to know them my first impression was completely off. I have also met people who I thought eurghh but alas I was wrong, they turned out to be pretty great.
So I guess I would like to give people an accurate representation of who I am as a first impression.
Last few years I’ve had my heartbroken, now I’m ok, I survived.
To the friends that slowly stopped responding until it had been years since we spoke, my heart is always open for you.
To the family members that let me down, some for the first time, some are repeat offenders my heart is broken.
Some showed me that maybe we are not as close as I thought and my wellbeing is not nor has it ever been their concern. I’m disappointed and our relationships will never be the same but I’m ok.
To the man I fell in love with so fast I failed to see I was standing out there alone I wish you well, because you promised me nothing.